One of the most difficult to tolerate conditions is the feeling of having a couple and at the same time experience loneliness. Need to be alone is a natural situation in human life. By time we crave having moments of intimacy with ourselves. In a world as it is today, plagued by noise, visual and auditory, pollution is difficult to find times of silence and solitude. It is essential then, isolate themselves to enter into communion with oneself and calm.
Of course that is healthy renewal in these moments of being alone. However, when we have a couple we love you so much but which at the same time we feel alone, without support, outside of your company and your affective disposition, then that feeling of loneliness we eats, since a part of ourselves cries out for live unaccompanied, regarded, cared for, loved and appreciated by our other half. Living two is an experience that complements the very meaning of our existence, is the possibility of giving a purpose to existence and even, up to transcend in the species, is that we have decided to have children. But when this couple, far from complement I experience again and again leads me to the suffering of loneliness, it is a wake-up call to redefine the direction of the relationship. When one of the members of the couple or both are experiencing this feeling probably are in a place in their relationship, in which more than an expression of love, living conditions of indifference, hostilities, not spoken resentments, struggles for power, lack of interest in the life of the couple, or the interests of any of the members of the same. It is to feel the anguish itself have someone and at the same time not to have it, as absent, emotionally speaking. Steven P Rosenthal brings even more insight to the discussion. My topics of conversation already does not interest you, when we talk about plans in common, we encounter with the wall of silence, or the at this time we have to talk about that? in a tone, of course, discomfort.